There has been a lot said about the book and in my review I would like to discuss the possible consequences.
I understand why most of us like the book. It works liberating. There is more between heaven and earth. There is a lot of potential in us, yet to be discovered. On a small (individual) scale I think this is rather easy to understand. There is no context, no society with forces of conformity. To me the challenge is exactly this context. Our society.
To further explain this I would like to describe a marine research about white sharks. There is the example of Mark Marks a biologist that has taken an unconventional approach to studying white sharks. He has a passion of sharks, quite differently from the going opinion of society. So rather than confirming their beastly behaviour he wanted to ‘really’ get to know them. Instead of monitoring them from a cage he swims with them. To facilitate this he invented a new kind of scuba gear that enabled him to swim under water without the bubbles associated with the conventional gear. This way he would not distract the sharks with anything out of the ordinary apart from himself. It enabled to swim with them, in between them and study behaviour otherwise not possible. The research has provided a lot of new insides, even puts the great white shark in a different spotlight. Yet, the scientific community is not able to go through the U and continues to use the present perspective on scientific research. Mark Marks has since dealt with tremendous criticism rather than openness to this new approach.
People have started to look at (white) sharks differently and in a more positive way. Even the scientific community seems to slightly move (yet, there is a long way to go). It is his passion and believe in his unique view on sharks and method of research that has started to pay off. But how far would you be able to pursue your vision with so much criticism? Also bare in mind this is a high involvement subject. What if it were less involving/exciting?
So reflecting and new knowledge can easily lead to severe criticism or unwillingness to understand. The context that on the one hand constraints us, on the other hand offers an nice safe haven, which is comfortable for many. Sometimes sensing and presencing can be hard or even painful, confronting yourself with potential and limitations at the same time.
In my past work I also came (and have come) across resistance as a result of trying to go through the U with colleagues. Not easy and it meant a lot of negative energy and endurance to continue. It sometimes meant leaving a place to pursue my believes rather than conform to the existing ideas.
To take it a step closer, remember Colby’s way of teaching. Although I think I try to live the way described in the book, it took me quite a while to ‘accept’ this way of teaching and respond to it differently to what I was used to. But is was not only the teaching, how long did it take us (if we ever really managed) to see, define and play the roles we each could have and fulfill. To see parts as a whole...
What I am trying to say that in order to live you life closely to the way the book described, it would probably require the following:
Goals:you will need to explain again and again the way of your approach and the reasons for this approach.
Critcism:
Since most people have not been able to live the way described in the book, you may have to expect a lot of criticism or at least cynicism from your environment. This will require a lot of endurance to continue what you believe in, something in my opinion will be something really hard to fulfill or be the greatest challenge.
Passion:
Since changes do not occur over night it will need a lot of passion to convince people and conquer criticism.
Strategy
In order to continue the path you’re you first have to define it. Especially considering the criticism it is important to know where you’re going or else you’ll soon feel lost.
Context
If you want to be able to convince your environment, you’ll need to discover what makes them tick: what they are about, their feeling, agenda, etc...
Not fulfilling one or some of these criteria will make your path more difficult . Thinking this way in a surrounding of ‘presence’ thinking can wear you out. And then what. Do you continue or conform to the majority, because it is easier...
Now remember our classes and the path to building our brand...doesn’t it all sound familiar and didn’t we all discuss these issues? How do you look at this now with retrospect of reading the book?
I very curious in what way you think you will implement this in your life and whether you see the same challenges? How R U going to deal with it?